Skip to Content Skip to Navigation

Gospel Library

Support Materials

Aaronic Priesthood Manual 1

Respect for Mothers and Their Divine Role

"Lesson 9: Respect for Mothers and Their Divine Role," Aaronic Priesthood Manual 1, 28

OBJECTIVE

Each young man will strengthen his relationship with his mother and respect her.

PREPARATION

SUGGESTED LESSON DEVELOPMENT

Mothers Are Important in God's Plan

Chalkboard and discussion

Draw the attention of the young men to the questions on the chalkboard (see "Preparation"). Read all three questions aloud.

Tell the young men that you are going to leave the questions on the chalkboard so everyone can think about them during the lesson.

Explain that even though we all love and appreciate our mothers, we often take them for granted. Sometimes we don't realize how much our mothers do for us until we have been away from them or away from home.

Story

Camping out had been an exciting experience for all the young men in one ward. The first few days they all said they were glad to be away from home. However, as the end of the camp drew near, they began to look forward to going home. As they gathered at their last meeting, the adviser asked the young men to share some thoughts they had about their mothers during the week at camp.

Ask the young men to present the following comments given by the young men on that final evening at camp.

Chalkboard and discussion

(Use good judgment and consideration if any of the young men do not have mothers in their home.) Ask the young men to help make a list of the contributions their mothers make to them and their family. Write on the chalkboard as many things as the young men can think of in two or three minutes. You will not have time to make a complete list of everything, but include enough things that they can see how many acts of service and love mothers perform every day that we all take for granted. To get the young men started, you might have them imagine they are just getting up in the morning; then have them go through a typical day, picking out their mothers' contributions.

Conclude from the list that we should give our mothers our love and gratitude, as well as our honor and respect.

Quotation

Read and discuss the following statement by President David O. McKay:

"Motherhood is the one thing in all the world which most truly exemplifies the God-given virtues of creating and sacrificing. ... The mother who, in compliance with eternal law, brings into the world an immortal spirit occupies first rank in the realm of creation" (Gospel Ideals [Salt Lake City: Improvement Era, 1953], p. 456).

Scripture

Read John 15:13. Have the young men underline this scripture.

Point out that we honor soldiers returning from battlefields for being willing to risk their lives for us, yet every mother who gives birth shows her willingness to lay down her life for that child. We do not always show the honor and express the gratitude we should to our mothers. Not only do they go through the pain and danger of birth that we might be born, but they also sacrifice their time and talents throughout their lives to raise us.

We Can Strengthen Our Relationship with Our Mothers

Scripture and discussion

Draw the young men's attention to the last question on the chalkboard. Do not ask for an answer at this time. Point out that Christ set the example for us. When he was on the cross, one of his last thoughts was for the welfare of his mother.

Have a young man read John 19:25-27.

Even though Jesus was suffering, he was so concerned for his mother that he asked John to take care of her.

Poster

Encourage each young man to contribute at least one idea. Explain that one thing that makes mothers happy is to have close, loving relationships with their sons. Show the young men the poster you have prepared. Tell them you interviewed their mothers and these are some of the things that the mothers felt strengthened their relationship with their sons. Discuss the ideas presented.

Quotation

President David O. McKay said, speaking of mothers, "If you tell her in a letter of your appreciation and love, she will shed tears of happiness" ("The True Mother," Instructor, May 1960, p. 142).

Activity

Distribute pencils, paper, and an envelope to each young man. Ask each young man to write a note of love and appreciation to his mother. Each young man may want to include a few commitments to show greater respect for his mother and improve his relationship with her.

Conclusion

Suggest to the young men that as much as words of thanks and little acts of appreciation mean to our mothers, one of the best ways we can really thank them is by honoring our priesthood and growing up to be the honest, faithful individuals they would like us to be.

Challenge

Explain that each young man is like a monument to his mother. He may honor his mother or dishonor her by the way he lives. Challenge each young man to honor his mother by living a righteous life.

^ Back to top

« Previous Chapter: Lesson 8: "Honour Thy Father"

Next Chapter: Lesson 10: Family Unity »

Support Materials Home

LDS.org Help  Feedback  Newsroom  Subscribe to RSS and E-mail  E-mail to a Friend
Mormon.org  FamilySearch.org  Rights and Use Information  Privacy Policy 
Official Web site of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
© 2010 Intellectual Reserve, Inc. All rights reserved.